For most guys sparking up a conversation with a girl is scarier than public speaking.
The number one reason why most guys are scared is because of the fear of rejection or looking silly when she doesn’t go along with your script. That’s because most guys don’t even know what to say and they jump into that whole “Damn, You must be tired because you’ve been running through mind all day”. lol I’m sorry but, I even had to laugh at that. Guys, first things first, please stop with the complimenting right of the back. Girls hate that; they might of liked it when they were 16 and 17. Since then they quickly got tired of that, especially when that’s what every guy been to approaching them with the past couple of years.
Talking to girls is easy and you have to keep it that way. There is no secret pick line or anything like that. Girls like to feel like they connected or bonded with you, that’s the secret. She won’t feel like she can bond with you if you approached her saying “Hey, I don’t mean to be rude but your fine than a motherf*@!er. That will get you nowhere.
The key is when you see a girl that you want to approach notice something about her this will give you ammo for your conversation. Use the environment around you, most guys go over a ton of ways to approach women, when you should use the current and present time in front of you. For example, you could be at a bar and you see the girl next to you take back to back shots of Bacardi 151. I think the most obvious thing to say would be “rough week” with a genuine smile. Let her response then you can take from there. See now that was simple.
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Nice, very nice and useful info, hello dolls i will beat you
That is actually one thing or a problem a guy is encountering..
That seems to be so normal for guys…
nice post
Nice topic, I have practice it even the result not 100% working
but its very useful for me
Thanks for the sharing
Canna wait to go for a few jars tonight and try out these tips!!
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Good pointer…
You’re right – it’s not just scarier than public speaking, it’s scarier than facing a firing squad!
But unlike public speaking you’re ok once you’re in and talking, it’s very weird how the walk up to a girl can be the scariest thing you’ll do on a night, after than you can chat away as much as you like!
Thanks for the tips anwyay!
Nice!
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Great post and i do agree!
usually when u get brave and talk to her then usually the tension releses…
great bloggg!